Friday, March 7, 2003 |
13:33 - Fascinating
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I'm sure this is not at all representative of what true Islamic thought has to say on this subject, but... well, considering the lack of counterargument that I've seen on the Ar-Rahman list, it stands to reason that it's accepted wisdom for some people.
being a woman of islam, ill answer q's 2,3 and 4. i am not sure about q1.
2) Why is a woman's testimony only worth half a man's?
this is true because women tend to work more from emotions. they have a softer heart and relent to temptation faster.
3) How come Islam allows men to beat their wives?
Islam doesnt allow men to beat wives just for fun. a man can not hit me unless ive gone against the path of Allah or adultery. Even then he can not hit me right away. there are steps leading upto it. first he tells me its wrong. then he separates his bed. and if even then i dont listen, he can hit me with a miswak (wooden stick used to cleanse teeth) no longer than his thumb.
this intends to attain two things... 1) if the woman has any haya in her, she'd stop by the time the man separates the bed. if not, she really s evil.
2) the length of the miswak... the length of a thumb... it can never hurt u. the intention is to reprimand not to injure.
also remember to judge a religion by its scripture not its people. what muslims do today is not what they are taught... just as christians or jews or believers of any other faith. just becoz a person does something doesnt mean the whole faith does it.
q4... the lashing... and stoning... im still not sure about this and i know there are conditions that apply. i had it in a book which i cant place right now.
however... even if the conditions are same... lets remember that a woman is built less inclined towards sex than man. it is tougher for her to succumb to temptation. also, by her indulging in fornication, she puts her lineage into threat. especially if she's maried and i think stoning is for married women only. it is also a way for men and woen to be punished in this world rather than facing it in the hereafter... which would be a tougher and more brutal punishment.
salamoalaikum... all errs are mine and mine alone... Allah is free of All errs.
Well, I'm glad that's cleared up.
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